My mind immediately went to those who cheat in scientific research and put out tainted and downright fraudulent papers. In many ways these researchers who throw out a data point here or two there to aid in the fulfillment of their hypothesis, are also Betas (really Zetas, in my book) vying impetuously for Alpha but at everyone else’s expense. Not as deep as your line of thought but I just listened to the Dr. Pierre Kory/Tucker Carlson interview and what the cheaters did with HCQ and Ivermectin, they are now trying with Vitamin D3! I vow to fight this with every cell of my unspiked body and hope others do so as well. The Italian Vitamin D study came out just in time to strengthen our defenses for this all important immunity essential vitamin.
It's so they get funding. Not an excuse, just an explanation. If you aren't propping up the narrative you don't get funded.
We used to get vitamin D as supplements in just about everything until Pig Pharma lobbied against it.
As I'm sure you know this is evident in just about every discipline that matters. No point in getting riled about it, we need to remove the entire system and replace it with, well, nothing would be good.
Maybe what Schwab is alluding to is the manufacture of plant fertilizers from Nitrogen using the Haber process that converts atmospheric nitrogen (N2) to ammonia (NH3) by a reaction with hydrogen (H2) using an iron metal catalyst under high temperatures and pressures.
The WEF want to reduce crop yields to starve people into submission.
Nitrogen fertilizer, aha, I knew that, should have made the connection.
Fertilizers don't improve crops. They improve crop yields. Farmers used to let the soil recover by leaving a field fallow one year in, I think, four. This lets nutrients, like essential minerals, recover in the soil. Producing higher quality, crops that are healthier. But that cuts into profit margins so instead the plants are fed fertilizers that will supply the plants with what they need to grow but not the nutrients we need to live healthy lives.
Fertilizers aren't doing us any favours but farmers need to compete with industrial farming operations so leaving a field fallow puts them under water.
You're correct about leaving the fields to lie "fallow." But in God's Word, it is stated to be once in seven years, for that same purpose; to allow for the field to "rest."
The conclusion is that our "seven-day" week cycle, with THE "rest day" appropriated to the last day of the week, (NOT the FIRST day; the Pagan day of the Sun-god!). The Sabbath Day was instituted by God's intimate knowledge of His creation by His Word, that the Fourth Commandment "rest" is applicable to us to this day, and shall be for a symbol to be acknowledged as such by all humans for all time to come.
As improbable as this all may sound to some, the Truth is that the Sabbath Day observance is also (or at least WILL be soon) a "test" of obedience and faith in an "All-Wise" Creator. That will become ratified once "ordinance" will be called upon and then put into effect by law that "Sun-day" must be kept holy. It's a Satanic plot from hell, to ensure disobedience thereby, and procure the loss of souls.
Soil usually provides the dissolved mineral nutrients in plants required by animals in their diet. If needed, they are not difficult to find and to add to the basic fertilizer. Alternatively you can take a multivitamin tablet every day.
Some farmers around my town do rotate the crops in their fields. Most add nitrate fertilizers, which seem to be given out by the [Mexican] state. Nitrates arrive dissolved in the drinking water and nobody [else] talks about this. You can't filter them out; you have to distill them out!
Does anyone know the damage that nitrate residues can do to the body? I read about various cancers, neural tube defects, diabetes, and thyroid issues. I notice lots of diabetes and PCOS in my area generally.
kinda thinking that the Schwabbie is not capable of understanding the explanation that you graciously provided. ;) More likely that he really DOES mean nitrogen, the element, because he IS that vapid.
Ha, they had their chance and blew it with the killer jabs.
When was the last time you heard a politician, any politician, say 'you'll own nothing and be happy'? Some pol said it here (Denmark) and had to retract.
NO ONE that matters wants their crap, as they will soon find out.
This is Klaus Hubbertz, and I herewith declare that the WEF along with its Klaus Schwab, Juval Noah Harari, Larry Fink and their despicable ilk shall disappear from the Earth's face a looooong time before the current ca. 78% of N will vary by one single ppm !!!
The physical biological human brain is divided roughly into three parts as the result of processes in the evolution of vertebrates over the past billion years. The most primitive is the medulla or reptilian brain or reactive part that responds to external stimuli by passing the cerebral cortex and involves no conscious thought, but hormones are generated, giving rise to fear and anger.
The mid-brain or cerebellum is primarily responsible for muscle control, including balance and movement. The cerebral cortex is the outer more modern layer of the brain and carries out essential functions like memory, thinking, learning, reasoning, problem-solving, consciousness, and sensory functions.
When my son in Germany's two kids were babies they got Vit d on every pediatrician visit as part of their general care, I wonder if it is still the case? I am inclined to believe not.
If "nothing" is the replacement for what is now present, then it will be inevitable that evil will quickly fill the void. Especially so, when there is no offsetting standard set into place with which to combat the potential wickedness that stands ready to take advantage of every opportunity to root itself deeply in society.
"Democracy," not as the world understands it to mean, but true to its definition, stands on the side of evil itself, offering "reason" as its standard, and "majority rules" as its creed. And as everyone has heard; (and laughingly concur with) it is stated rightly, that in a Democratic society of wolves for the e.g., wherein among the pack resides a sheep, that when a vote as to who will be sacrificed at dinner time, the inevitable will occur.
It's a real-world scenario; yet one which defines the word perfectly.
With all the evil propaganda influencing the populous toward the "ordered" goal, it is no wonder that half or so actually trust in the narrative and the goals presented! They do not realize that they, being represented by the stupid sheep, being led to slaughter, (singled out as "dinner") had been given no say in the matter, due to "Democracy."
This is precisely the reason that in God's universe, there will be zero "Democracy." It's (heaven's) Government will consist of the love that is prolific and reciprocal in the absence of all "selfish motivation." With that having been removed, peace and tranquility, goodness, and all the pleasures that God has in store to flood His faithful with, can ensue.
When I hear accolades given to "Democracy" I cannot help but cringe, and hope that we will come to the light of Truth soon, and so perish not.
Thank you for your reasoned thoughts Ray. I started replying to this, it turned into a rant that I've been meaning to let out anyway so I decided to make it an article. I'm overdue for one of those. Hopefully it won't take too long.
I saw the writing on the wall as well as learned in early 2020 about vitamin d protective effect and as such I bought a 10 year supply.
Covid has been a blessing for my brain because I have learned so much about vitamins, nutrients, minerals and a host of alternative healing practices that I honestly do not need a doctor anymore. I even stopped my kidney medication over 2 years ago and my numbers are improving.
I protected my family with a high vitamin d level, we all walk around at 100ng and my wife is much higher as we are healing her bad back and fibromyalgia.
We got sick with something in April of 2021, we refuse to test ourselves, it was a 3-5 day event and since that time we have not even caught a COLDvid, true story.
I appreciate all you have done Jessica even though I have not been on your page much I have lurked everywhere for these 4 years, spreading info about vitamin d and stopping people from getting these shots.
Unfortunately I have had more success with complete strangers then I have with my extended family, just crazy and even my old job of 28 years where everybody knew me and came up to me for information on a vareity of topics, they refused to listen to me about covid.
Did you look at the use of Vit K2 as a cofactor with your D3? It is useful for bone metabolism, a cheap and safe substitute for the profitable bisphosphonate scam.
Absolutely friend and actually its a must when you supplement vitamin d.
In the early days before winter, wife and I take 50,000iu for a week or so and always with that amount we take Super K from Life Extension and of course copious amounts of magnesium.
When we are just maintaining our levels we take 100-300mck of vitamin k.
Something else to add with your vitamin d is born, helps with the absorption.
Very very few people can think in original ways. Almost all of academia must be plagiarized, stolen, or made up. Way too many PhDs. Far too few people who can think creatively or even interestingly. MA should be the highest degree given out. A Doctorate should be reserved only for exceptional groundbreaking studies.
Self lying has to be the most destructive to the person's psyche. That is where cheating/lying to others leads to not caring about the hurt being caused
Maybe some can carry that on indefinitely. It is my fervent hope that most cannot. However deep the rabbit hole I seem to find myself in these days, I can't believe the majority of doctors went into their profession with the hope that they could, someday, kill their patients.
OMG they're gonna be pissed when they realise just how much they've been played - listen to Dr. Boz - she jabbed herself, her kids and her patients. They (the majority anyway) CANNOT carry on for much longer; they see the carnage every day.
hey ya know, I'm sure they got a pill or surgery to correct ALL 'problems of the psyche'. just heard today, via uncovered internal emails, that 'gender affirming' surgeons were discussing the use of an app to facilitate communications between all the personalities (some dozen or so) in a person with Multiple Personality Disorder, so that 'they could agree' on sex change treatments/surgeries. I. SHIT. YOU. NOT. these folks think its just jolly good to do life-altering surgery on a seriously mentally ill person. talk about not caring about hurting someone, these freaks (the doctors) are unconscionable
Cheating, lieing, and stealing are all the same thing to me. If a person does any one of these things, they are not to be trusted...period. The same thing I have told my children. It keeps their eyes open who to trust.
Cheating is an alarm bell 🔔 for the self that I’m off track to my truest nature e.g., believing thoughts like ‘I’m less than’ or ‘I’m not good enough’. I liken it to sin (which I get can be a loaded word), where I turn against the reality of self - that of wordless wonder and love and peace and being. If I believe I’m lacking, I notice I try and find a way to make up for this lack somehow. (Overeating, dishonesty, taking more than giving). This can be the slightest thing (seemingly only affecting the self) or a big cheat clearly affecting other people or things or nature etc
Byron Katie has offered a way for me to find this for myself. Especially if I think the world shouldn’t cheat: I then look to where I cheat myself. Start with the micro.
Thank you for your curious mind and sharing Jessica Rose. You are someone I admire (from little NZ) as you have come to my attention over the last few years. You personify integrity and grit (funny just realised there is grit in integrity!) and I love your sense of humour and realness.
I hope you realise your meaning to others around the world- well this one anyway/ thank you for all you do and are doing and thank you for just being you!
What an uncharacteristic post from you! In something like four years of following you I don't remember a hint about the other side of your life - relationships.
As a born Californian and after three decades in the Washington swamp I am familiar with cheating and cheaters. My take is the same as yours. Even in two failed marriages the question until the end was how to make it work rather than, who else?
Happy to say that the third one is a charm. And to know from experience that bodies are just bodies - everybody has one. What is unique is the person, and especially the relationship. The bond that serves as the foundation of the relationship, the anchor, the model to present to the children.
Man and woman! Do not let lust and sloth rule your day! Baptize in the name of Yehoshuah [Jesus], and cleanse your sin! Then you are forgiven, and you will not cheat and defile yourselves anymore. Higher awareness will rule your day! Live a holy life with good intention in every moment you can! If there is real love, there will be marriage, and hopefully healthy non-modified antivaxx natural children.
Why do people cheat? 1. Because they can and think they will get away with it. 2. Because there are financial incentives to cheat. 3. Because they are told to by their workplaces for the benefit of the employer.
But, you are mostly looking at interpersonal relationships in this article. I think our cultures have emphasiszed the wrong things because the sell. 1. Sexualizing everything to make us feel if we bought X we would be more like the model in the ad. 2. Placing power and success of climbing the corporate ladder with get you a high value partner. 3. Lack of impulse control. I want him or her and my partner will not find out. But eventually they do and it creates great pain. The moral failing is allowing yourself to be willing to take the risk of hurting someone you love or at least care about for some shallow self gratification, validation or thrill.
Me sitting around with a gay couple; “you two are monogamous, right?” “Absolutely” they said and then reached out and touched each other affectionately. “We talked about this, because a lot of gay couples aren’t, and we knew this was very important to both of us. So we are. I mean mainly.” Mainly! I laughed. Then they proceeded to tell me about one who had been at an academic conference and had a hookup, sending PICS BACK to the other. The hookup was coming out to visit them that summer. Which was going to be hot and exciting!! They asked how my wife and I handled it. I said ‘we don’t. We are monogamous. And not mainly’. They gasped. As in how is this possible!?!
wow is right. i know that 'to each their won' might apply here for some people, but i really feel like true pair bonding can't work that way. i think it's about lust when sex is involved. in my opinion, which is not shared by many, the divinity and sacredness of pair bonding physically is lost on some people, and is centered around love, not lust. it's simply 'too easy' to be easy. :)
A gay person I knew asked how long my wife and I had been together. At the time it was 20 years. Forty now. He was shocked. He said ‘Twenty years. That’s 100 in gay years.’ Which was pretty funny. But he said a 20 year long relationship among gays is the equivalent of 100 year long straight marriage. They were that unusual. They don’t hold together. Not that straight ones do either in many ways. But they break up really easily.
Very insightful. I've been writing about liars a long time and this applies, as a cheat is a lie. They both undermine the agency of the counter party, and are both the mark of a selfish, sometimes evil soul.
Yah… any kind of cheating is a sort of self judgement where we feel like we need to be ahead of or above others. It’s all about self esteem to me. When we judge others we’re judging ourselves. And there’s so much name calling and blaming and yes, cheating… all to cover up the roaring self hatred. I agree it’s a lot about nurture. A little trick I use when I catch myself being judgmental is to pause and say ”just like me”. Good topic. 🩵
To your question: The first person I fell truly in love with - and still love decades later - admitted to being witness to, but incapable of responding to their father sexually abusing the middle sister in a family of two girls and three boys. In that moment of hearing this on our third date, I sensed that I was going to be cheated on. And despite denials about intention, he cheated on me within 18 months. Ii felt at the time that it was going to happen as a self-test of survival through broken loyalties (survival) by an authority figure. Other than keeping secrets, social norms were obviously useless. Someone cheating on me seemed like the means for the witness of abuse to regain a sense of self-sovereignty through self-created existential crisis, after being silenced in the emotionally and physically precarious realm of child abuse.
Their MD father was socially respected in a top position, and an authority figure at home for kids who depended upon him for their very survival. The father was a narcissst but did not make sexual comments in public about feeling his daughter was sexy to him, like a certain Public political figure did on daytime TV..
None of the kids in the family if my friend ever got married. The older brother turned out to be the most caring for
others. They are all really bright, creative and perhaps silently conditioned… to be who they are by trusting in themselves and still upholding their values.
Cheating is such an unfortunate act and maybe more forgivable than child abuse. And for those cheated on? Love hurts: but also, their cheating has not much to do with the person cheated on. It’s a sign of no love or broken love, if we share love physically with spoken commitment.
When cheated on, I fully felt my own being as decidedly different than the one I loved who cheated on me. Honesty as a loving person was always the basis for grounding my very sense of being. But that comes from and with suffering under and always caring for a deceptive, unloving Covert Narcissist of a mother. It takes a lifetime to learn we can’t compensate for family members. Regardless of others cheating, life is little without knowing ♥️ and respect for others comes from within. Cheating and abuse for that matter may be a boundary issue. Abhorrent? Painful! I don’t know the Alpha lingo, but don’t think it has much to do with conscious loving.
Hmm yes. But I need more context. Can you kindly say something more about the Alpha metaphor/idea or give a reference?
I also need to sleep on ‘conscious loving’ to be more definitive. Because
It is potential within all of us, and feels related to a profound sense of being (alive), in a way some don’t seem to sense.
It is something about inter-subjectivity… Being present and WITH spirted beings (people, cats, cells LIFE ) versus thinking about others, as if objective things who DO things to us. It’s something about precious creativity with and within this one/whole physical realm with others of the same realm… where creativity including pro-creation is profound and comes from within each of us through the complex dynamics across scales.
The conscious loving reflects an empathetic sense that can be frightening (?) when others simply don’t know how that is. It’s something about open perception and perspective, connections, and intelligence beyond thought(?) not one or the other…. and being in the world with one another in a timeless now.
Sorry as I am rambling about the ineffable that is not just a physically intimate act.
Is the cheating ‘problem’ maybe what you/we sense when someone you love isn’t fully with you as you know you are with them? So when they fail to respect you with honesty, they impose their limitations on you? Or maybe they aren’t cheating on you so much as their life has cheated them out of the experience of knowing and loving you and themselves as fully as you feel you do them? Nobody is above or ahead of anybody else really. Still, many just think they are in a well defined objective and transactional world when they maybe could have potential for being so much more.
Words! Clumsy yet Heartfelt shades of the 12 bio-dynamic dimensions of love within the context of universal being which IS: love.
Letters! I am, and it is the difference between one loving and living within all that is ever now.
There have been very few 'healthy' relationships exemplified on television, but a favorite of mine from the 'old days' of tv was the connection between Marshall Matt Dillon and Miss Kitty on the wonderful series "Gunsmoke". It portrayed two independent, self-assured people who loved each other and respected each other's character, personality, privacy, needs and wants. An exquisitely balanced relationship, especially for the early 1960s.
As an aside, there was an episode of the precursor to "Gunsmoke" called "Marshall Dillon" that absolutely floored me. Bear in mind this was about 1959 or '60. I saw it a couple of years ago on some obscure digital tv channel. It revolved around a middle-aged husband and wife who lived on a farm/ranch a few miles out of town and stayed pretty much to themselves, except for the infrequent trips to town in the horse and buggy for supplies. Everyone in town KNEW how the husband unrelentingly verbally and physically abused his wife for years, but they all looked the other way. Finally, the wife couldn't take it any more and shot her husband dead in their barn after a particularly bad session of abuse. Marshall Dillon went out to the farm to investigate the death, exchanged minimal words with the wife, easily grasped what had transpired, offered his well wishes to the now-widow, got on his horse and went back to town. Never dreamed I'd see that circa 1960 on the tv.
Absolutely, and she also owned the saloon. The madam, though, and not one of the 'working' girls. As I said, an independent woman, pretty unusual in the 50s-60s.
Cheaters are totally lacking in self respect or, for that matter respect for anyone else. I sometimes wonder if it not part of the subtle brainwashing that is going on in efforts to break up the family unit. After all family is one of our biggest strengths and must be destroyed if they wish to totally dominate mankind.
My mind immediately went to those who cheat in scientific research and put out tainted and downright fraudulent papers. In many ways these researchers who throw out a data point here or two there to aid in the fulfillment of their hypothesis, are also Betas (really Zetas, in my book) vying impetuously for Alpha but at everyone else’s expense. Not as deep as your line of thought but I just listened to the Dr. Pierre Kory/Tucker Carlson interview and what the cheaters did with HCQ and Ivermectin, they are now trying with Vitamin D3! I vow to fight this with every cell of my unspiked body and hope others do so as well. The Italian Vitamin D study came out just in time to strengthen our defenses for this all important immunity essential vitamin.
yup
It's so they get funding. Not an excuse, just an explanation. If you aren't propping up the narrative you don't get funded.
We used to get vitamin D as supplements in just about everything until Pig Pharma lobbied against it.
As I'm sure you know this is evident in just about every discipline that matters. No point in getting riled about it, we need to remove the entire system and replace it with, well, nothing would be good.
Now klaus schwab has declared Nitrogen is the next gas he wants to eliminate.
Wahahaha! You're joking right? Air is something like 70% or 80% nitrogen. And I believe it is inert.
Still, it's in the realm of possibility for that bunch.
Maybe what Schwab is alluding to is the manufacture of plant fertilizers from Nitrogen using the Haber process that converts atmospheric nitrogen (N2) to ammonia (NH3) by a reaction with hydrogen (H2) using an iron metal catalyst under high temperatures and pressures.
The WEF want to reduce crop yields to starve people into submission.
Nitrogen fertilizer, aha, I knew that, should have made the connection.
Fertilizers don't improve crops. They improve crop yields. Farmers used to let the soil recover by leaving a field fallow one year in, I think, four. This lets nutrients, like essential minerals, recover in the soil. Producing higher quality, crops that are healthier. But that cuts into profit margins so instead the plants are fed fertilizers that will supply the plants with what they need to grow but not the nutrients we need to live healthy lives.
Fertilizers aren't doing us any favours but farmers need to compete with industrial farming operations so leaving a field fallow puts them under water.
You're correct about leaving the fields to lie "fallow." But in God's Word, it is stated to be once in seven years, for that same purpose; to allow for the field to "rest."
The conclusion is that our "seven-day" week cycle, with THE "rest day" appropriated to the last day of the week, (NOT the FIRST day; the Pagan day of the Sun-god!). The Sabbath Day was instituted by God's intimate knowledge of His creation by His Word, that the Fourth Commandment "rest" is applicable to us to this day, and shall be for a symbol to be acknowledged as such by all humans for all time to come.
As improbable as this all may sound to some, the Truth is that the Sabbath Day observance is also (or at least WILL be soon) a "test" of obedience and faith in an "All-Wise" Creator. That will become ratified once "ordinance" will be called upon and then put into effect by law that "Sun-day" must be kept holy. It's a Satanic plot from hell, to ensure disobedience thereby, and procure the loss of souls.
"Doubt it NOT!"
Ray
Soil usually provides the dissolved mineral nutrients in plants required by animals in their diet. If needed, they are not difficult to find and to add to the basic fertilizer. Alternatively you can take a multivitamin tablet every day.
Some farmers around my town do rotate the crops in their fields. Most add nitrate fertilizers, which seem to be given out by the [Mexican] state. Nitrates arrive dissolved in the drinking water and nobody [else] talks about this. You can't filter them out; you have to distill them out!
Does anyone know the damage that nitrate residues can do to the body? I read about various cancers, neural tube defects, diabetes, and thyroid issues. I notice lots of diabetes and PCOS in my area generally.
kinda thinking that the Schwabbie is not capable of understanding the explanation that you graciously provided. ;) More likely that he really DOES mean nitrogen, the element, because he IS that vapid.
Which draws attention to the interesting question- who is actually in the layer above Klaus?
Hopefully a bolt of lightning will put him out of his misery :-)
The WEF want to ....
Ha, they had their chance and blew it with the killer jabs.
When was the last time you heard a politician, any politician, say 'you'll own nothing and be happy'? Some pol said it here (Denmark) and had to retract.
NO ONE that matters wants their crap, as they will soon find out.
Thrustin' Turdhole said that. I flipped out when I heard, and contacted my MP. I didn't hear back.
That is actually funny! I am holding my breath till Klaus declares Oxygen a gas to reduce. LOL
Nitrogen has declared klaus schwab is the next criminal it wants to eliminate. It is a legal method in some States.
This is Klaus Hubbertz, and I herewith declare that the WEF along with its Klaus Schwab, Juval Noah Harari, Larry Fink and their despicable ilk shall disappear from the Earth's face a looooong time before the current ca. 78% of N will vary by one single ppm !!!
Hopefully, it is a short time from now.
Well, he’s a reptile, so there’s that! Apparently lizards don’t need nitrogen. Or maybe he’s an alien?! Whatever, he doesn’t belong in this world!
The physical biological human brain is divided roughly into three parts as the result of processes in the evolution of vertebrates over the past billion years. The most primitive is the medulla or reptilian brain or reactive part that responds to external stimuli by passing the cerebral cortex and involves no conscious thought, but hormones are generated, giving rise to fear and anger.
The mid-brain or cerebellum is primarily responsible for muscle control, including balance and movement. The cerebral cortex is the outer more modern layer of the brain and carries out essential functions like memory, thinking, learning, reasoning, problem-solving, consciousness, and sensory functions.
When my son in Germany's two kids were babies they got Vit d on every pediatrician visit as part of their general care, I wonder if it is still the case? I am inclined to believe not.
John,
If "nothing" is the replacement for what is now present, then it will be inevitable that evil will quickly fill the void. Especially so, when there is no offsetting standard set into place with which to combat the potential wickedness that stands ready to take advantage of every opportunity to root itself deeply in society.
"Democracy," not as the world understands it to mean, but true to its definition, stands on the side of evil itself, offering "reason" as its standard, and "majority rules" as its creed. And as everyone has heard; (and laughingly concur with) it is stated rightly, that in a Democratic society of wolves for the e.g., wherein among the pack resides a sheep, that when a vote as to who will be sacrificed at dinner time, the inevitable will occur.
It's a real-world scenario; yet one which defines the word perfectly.
With all the evil propaganda influencing the populous toward the "ordered" goal, it is no wonder that half or so actually trust in the narrative and the goals presented! They do not realize that they, being represented by the stupid sheep, being led to slaughter, (singled out as "dinner") had been given no say in the matter, due to "Democracy."
This is precisely the reason that in God's universe, there will be zero "Democracy." It's (heaven's) Government will consist of the love that is prolific and reciprocal in the absence of all "selfish motivation." With that having been removed, peace and tranquility, goodness, and all the pleasures that God has in store to flood His faithful with, can ensue.
When I hear accolades given to "Democracy" I cannot help but cringe, and hope that we will come to the light of Truth soon, and so perish not.
Ray
Thank you for your reasoned thoughts Ray. I started replying to this, it turned into a rant that I've been meaning to let out anyway so I decided to make it an article. I'm overdue for one of those. Hopefully it won't take too long.
I saw the writing on the wall as well as learned in early 2020 about vitamin d protective effect and as such I bought a 10 year supply.
Covid has been a blessing for my brain because I have learned so much about vitamins, nutrients, minerals and a host of alternative healing practices that I honestly do not need a doctor anymore. I even stopped my kidney medication over 2 years ago and my numbers are improving.
I protected my family with a high vitamin d level, we all walk around at 100ng and my wife is much higher as we are healing her bad back and fibromyalgia.
We got sick with something in April of 2021, we refuse to test ourselves, it was a 3-5 day event and since that time we have not even caught a COLDvid, true story.
I appreciate all you have done Jessica even though I have not been on your page much I have lurked everywhere for these 4 years, spreading info about vitamin d and stopping people from getting these shots.
Unfortunately I have had more success with complete strangers then I have with my extended family, just crazy and even my old job of 28 years where everybody knew me and came up to me for information on a vareity of topics, they refused to listen to me about covid.
Did you look at the use of Vit K2 as a cofactor with your D3? It is useful for bone metabolism, a cheap and safe substitute for the profitable bisphosphonate scam.
Absolutely friend and actually its a must when you supplement vitamin d.
In the early days before winter, wife and I take 50,000iu for a week or so and always with that amount we take Super K from Life Extension and of course copious amounts of magnesium.
When we are just maintaining our levels we take 100-300mck of vitamin k.
Something else to add with your vitamin d is born, helps with the absorption.
I'm also certain now that the chem trails and blocking of the sun has just as much to do with blocking vitamin d production as anything else.
Very very few people can think in original ways. Almost all of academia must be plagiarized, stolen, or made up. Way too many PhDs. Far too few people who can think creatively or even interestingly. MA should be the highest degree given out. A Doctorate should be reserved only for exceptional groundbreaking studies.
Cheating is a form of lying. If you chest. You are also a compulsive LIAR
self lying
Self lying has to be the most destructive to the person's psyche. That is where cheating/lying to others leads to not caring about the hurt being caused
Maybe some can carry that on indefinitely. It is my fervent hope that most cannot. However deep the rabbit hole I seem to find myself in these days, I can't believe the majority of doctors went into their profession with the hope that they could, someday, kill their patients.
OMG they're gonna be pissed when they realise just how much they've been played - listen to Dr. Boz - she jabbed herself, her kids and her patients. They (the majority anyway) CANNOT carry on for much longer; they see the carnage every day.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=v3N-uFfvU5s
hey ya know, I'm sure they got a pill or surgery to correct ALL 'problems of the psyche'. just heard today, via uncovered internal emails, that 'gender affirming' surgeons were discussing the use of an app to facilitate communications between all the personalities (some dozen or so) in a person with Multiple Personality Disorder, so that 'they could agree' on sex change treatments/surgeries. I. SHIT. YOU. NOT. these folks think its just jolly good to do life-altering surgery on a seriously mentally ill person. talk about not caring about hurting someone, these freaks (the doctors) are unconscionable
Cheating, lieing, and stealing are all the same thing to me. If a person does any one of these things, they are not to be trusted...period. The same thing I have told my children. It keeps their eyes open who to trust.
Cheating is an alarm bell 🔔 for the self that I’m off track to my truest nature e.g., believing thoughts like ‘I’m less than’ or ‘I’m not good enough’. I liken it to sin (which I get can be a loaded word), where I turn against the reality of self - that of wordless wonder and love and peace and being. If I believe I’m lacking, I notice I try and find a way to make up for this lack somehow. (Overeating, dishonesty, taking more than giving). This can be the slightest thing (seemingly only affecting the self) or a big cheat clearly affecting other people or things or nature etc
Byron Katie has offered a way for me to find this for myself. Especially if I think the world shouldn’t cheat: I then look to where I cheat myself. Start with the micro.
Thank you for your curious mind and sharing Jessica Rose. You are someone I admire (from little NZ) as you have come to my attention over the last few years. You personify integrity and grit (funny just realised there is grit in integrity!) and I love your sense of humour and realness.
I hope you realise your meaning to others around the world- well this one anyway/ thank you for all you do and are doing and thank you for just being you!
<3
Jessica, I have followed your work since I found you during COVID. Thank you for your integrity. Elizabeth
What an uncharacteristic post from you! In something like four years of following you I don't remember a hint about the other side of your life - relationships.
As a born Californian and after three decades in the Washington swamp I am familiar with cheating and cheaters. My take is the same as yours. Even in two failed marriages the question until the end was how to make it work rather than, who else?
Happy to say that the third one is a charm. And to know from experience that bodies are just bodies - everybody has one. What is unique is the person, and especially the relationship. The bond that serves as the foundation of the relationship, the anchor, the model to present to the children.
Live long and prosper, Jessica!
Man and woman! Do not let lust and sloth rule your day! Baptize in the name of Yehoshuah [Jesus], and cleanse your sin! Then you are forgiven, and you will not cheat and defile yourselves anymore. Higher awareness will rule your day! Live a holy life with good intention in every moment you can! If there is real love, there will be marriage, and hopefully healthy non-modified antivaxx natural children.
Why do people cheat? 1. Because they can and think they will get away with it. 2. Because there are financial incentives to cheat. 3. Because they are told to by their workplaces for the benefit of the employer.
But, you are mostly looking at interpersonal relationships in this article. I think our cultures have emphasiszed the wrong things because the sell. 1. Sexualizing everything to make us feel if we bought X we would be more like the model in the ad. 2. Placing power and success of climbing the corporate ladder with get you a high value partner. 3. Lack of impulse control. I want him or her and my partner will not find out. But eventually they do and it creates great pain. The moral failing is allowing yourself to be willing to take the risk of hurting someone you love or at least care about for some shallow self gratification, validation or thrill.
Me sitting around with a gay couple; “you two are monogamous, right?” “Absolutely” they said and then reached out and touched each other affectionately. “We talked about this, because a lot of gay couples aren’t, and we knew this was very important to both of us. So we are. I mean mainly.” Mainly! I laughed. Then they proceeded to tell me about one who had been at an academic conference and had a hookup, sending PICS BACK to the other. The hookup was coming out to visit them that summer. Which was going to be hot and exciting!! They asked how my wife and I handled it. I said ‘we don’t. We are monogamous. And not mainly’. They gasped. As in how is this possible!?!
wow...
wow is right. i know that 'to each their won' might apply here for some people, but i really feel like true pair bonding can't work that way. i think it's about lust when sex is involved. in my opinion, which is not shared by many, the divinity and sacredness of pair bonding physically is lost on some people, and is centered around love, not lust. it's simply 'too easy' to be easy. :)
A gay person I knew asked how long my wife and I had been together. At the time it was 20 years. Forty now. He was shocked. He said ‘Twenty years. That’s 100 in gay years.’ Which was pretty funny. But he said a 20 year long relationship among gays is the equivalent of 100 year long straight marriage. They were that unusual. They don’t hold together. Not that straight ones do either in many ways. But they break up really easily.
Very insightful. I've been writing about liars a long time and this applies, as a cheat is a lie. They both undermine the agency of the counter party, and are both the mark of a selfish, sometimes evil soul.
Those who cheat allow importance to the " container" than to the "content".
I call them " empty boxes ".
nice
Yah… any kind of cheating is a sort of self judgement where we feel like we need to be ahead of or above others. It’s all about self esteem to me. When we judge others we’re judging ourselves. And there’s so much name calling and blaming and yes, cheating… all to cover up the roaring self hatred. I agree it’s a lot about nurture. A little trick I use when I catch myself being judgmental is to pause and say ”just like me”. Good topic. 🩵
Many reasons one chooses to cheat or groups that cheat.
Vicious selfishness. Most obvious? "IT" is all about me and or mine! I want what I want and I want it now!
Don't those that cheat tend to FALL short in other veins of purity?
To your question: The first person I fell truly in love with - and still love decades later - admitted to being witness to, but incapable of responding to their father sexually abusing the middle sister in a family of two girls and three boys. In that moment of hearing this on our third date, I sensed that I was going to be cheated on. And despite denials about intention, he cheated on me within 18 months. Ii felt at the time that it was going to happen as a self-test of survival through broken loyalties (survival) by an authority figure. Other than keeping secrets, social norms were obviously useless. Someone cheating on me seemed like the means for the witness of abuse to regain a sense of self-sovereignty through self-created existential crisis, after being silenced in the emotionally and physically precarious realm of child abuse.
Their MD father was socially respected in a top position, and an authority figure at home for kids who depended upon him for their very survival. The father was a narcissst but did not make sexual comments in public about feeling his daughter was sexy to him, like a certain Public political figure did on daytime TV..
None of the kids in the family if my friend ever got married. The older brother turned out to be the most caring for
others. They are all really bright, creative and perhaps silently conditioned… to be who they are by trusting in themselves and still upholding their values.
Cheating is such an unfortunate act and maybe more forgivable than child abuse. And for those cheated on? Love hurts: but also, their cheating has not much to do with the person cheated on. It’s a sign of no love or broken love, if we share love physically with spoken commitment.
When cheated on, I fully felt my own being as decidedly different than the one I loved who cheated on me. Honesty as a loving person was always the basis for grounding my very sense of being. But that comes from and with suffering under and always caring for a deceptive, unloving Covert Narcissist of a mother. It takes a lifetime to learn we can’t compensate for family members. Regardless of others cheating, life is little without knowing ♥️ and respect for others comes from within. Cheating and abuse for that matter may be a boundary issue. Abhorrent? Painful! I don’t know the Alpha lingo, but don’t think it has much to do with conscious loving.
can you define conscious loving? this is interesting.
Hmm yes. But I need more context. Can you kindly say something more about the Alpha metaphor/idea or give a reference?
I also need to sleep on ‘conscious loving’ to be more definitive. Because
It is potential within all of us, and feels related to a profound sense of being (alive), in a way some don’t seem to sense.
It is something about inter-subjectivity… Being present and WITH spirted beings (people, cats, cells LIFE ) versus thinking about others, as if objective things who DO things to us. It’s something about precious creativity with and within this one/whole physical realm with others of the same realm… where creativity including pro-creation is profound and comes from within each of us through the complex dynamics across scales.
The conscious loving reflects an empathetic sense that can be frightening (?) when others simply don’t know how that is. It’s something about open perception and perspective, connections, and intelligence beyond thought(?) not one or the other…. and being in the world with one another in a timeless now.
Sorry as I am rambling about the ineffable that is not just a physically intimate act.
Is the cheating ‘problem’ maybe what you/we sense when someone you love isn’t fully with you as you know you are with them? So when they fail to respect you with honesty, they impose their limitations on you? Or maybe they aren’t cheating on you so much as their life has cheated them out of the experience of knowing and loving you and themselves as fully as you feel you do them? Nobody is above or ahead of anybody else really. Still, many just think they are in a well defined objective and transactional world when they maybe could have potential for being so much more.
Words! Clumsy yet Heartfelt shades of the 12 bio-dynamic dimensions of love within the context of universal being which IS: love.
Letters! I am, and it is the difference between one loving and living within all that is ever now.
As always, and until such time,
Thank you for your writing Jessica .
🙏🏻💝
Then there are the other, not so humane reasons and characteristics that are not reparable. Pathology.
Nature, nurture and the problem of evil.
There have been very few 'healthy' relationships exemplified on television, but a favorite of mine from the 'old days' of tv was the connection between Marshall Matt Dillon and Miss Kitty on the wonderful series "Gunsmoke". It portrayed two independent, self-assured people who loved each other and respected each other's character, personality, privacy, needs and wants. An exquisitely balanced relationship, especially for the early 1960s.
As an aside, there was an episode of the precursor to "Gunsmoke" called "Marshall Dillon" that absolutely floored me. Bear in mind this was about 1959 or '60. I saw it a couple of years ago on some obscure digital tv channel. It revolved around a middle-aged husband and wife who lived on a farm/ranch a few miles out of town and stayed pretty much to themselves, except for the infrequent trips to town in the horse and buggy for supplies. Everyone in town KNEW how the husband unrelentingly verbally and physically abused his wife for years, but they all looked the other way. Finally, the wife couldn't take it any more and shot her husband dead in their barn after a particularly bad session of abuse. Marshall Dillon went out to the farm to investigate the death, exchanged minimal words with the wife, easily grasped what had transpired, offered his well wishes to the now-widow, got on his horse and went back to town. Never dreamed I'd see that circa 1960 on the tv.
correct me if I'm wrong, but wasn't it implied ('wink, wink'), in the show 'Gunsmoke' that Miss Kitty was the local 'madam'?
Absolutely, and she also owned the saloon. The madam, though, and not one of the 'working' girls. As I said, an independent woman, pretty unusual in the 50s-60s.
Cheaters are totally lacking in self respect or, for that matter respect for anyone else. I sometimes wonder if it not part of the subtle brainwashing that is going on in efforts to break up the family unit. After all family is one of our biggest strengths and must be destroyed if they wish to totally dominate mankind.